Super Parents

Scarr’s theory gave parents the notion that attempting to be the perfect parent and do everything “correctly” will not have a more positive effect on the child than being a parent that simply does their job. For example, if a child being raised by two parents that are very active, present, and involved in their life won’t have an edge over a child who is being raised by two working parents that are rarely there to ensure the child excels as long as the working parents are providing attention, love, and doing their duties as parents. The idea that “good enough” parenting is just as successful as fully involved, motivating parents makes some sense to me. It doesn’t give some kids opportunities over other kids, yet “super parents” may lead to children with aggressive, driven mindsets that has could lead to creating more opportunities and experiences for themselves.