The
connection that I found between these two videos was that the baby’s energy was
directly related to the nonverbal communication with the caregiver. If the
caregiver provided a negative reaction or no reaction at all, the baby would
respond in a stressed, wary, or negative way. And the same happened for the opposite.
If the mother was happy or relaxed, so was the child.
Even without words, excitement,
tension, stress, happiness, etc. can be transmitted from the parent to the child.
And once this is understood, it allows parents to understand that how they act
around their child directly affects the child. Even if you don’t notice it, the
attitude of the caregiver is understood by the child. To a new mother, this information
could be very helpful when it comes to dealing with a fussy baby. If the child senses
that the caregiver is stressed or scared, the child’s attitude will not change
for the better. A calm collected mother will get a better response from the
child than a nervous one will.